Friday, November 28, 2008

JOKE……

JOKE……

A man joined a big Multi National Company as a trainee..... On his first day, he dialled the kitchen and shouted into the phone: "Get me a cup of coffee, quickly!" The voice from the other side responded: "You fool; you've dialled the wrong extension! Do youknow who you're talking to?" "No" replied the trainee."It's the ManagingDirector of the company, you idiot!" The trainee shouted back: "Anddo you know who YOU are talking to, you IDIOT?" "No!" replied the Managing Director angrily. "Thank God!" replied the trainee and put down the phone ...

Discoveries & inventions of Man & WOMAN

Discoveries & inventions of Man & WOMAN
The man discovered COLORS and invented PAINT;
the woman discovered PAINT and invented MAKEUP.
The man discovered the WORD and invented CONVERSATION;
the woman discovered CONVERSATION and invented GOSSIP.
The man discovered AGRICULTURE and invented FOOD;
The woman discovered FOOD and invented DIET.
The man discovered FRIENDSHIP and invented LOVE;
The woman discovered LOVE and invented LOVE TRIANGLES.
The man discovered TRADING and invented MONEY;
the woman discovered MONEY and invented SHOPPING.
Thereafter man has discovered and invented a lot of things...
but the women are still BUSY in shopping.................

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Donate EYES!!

Donate EYES!!

The train has started moving.
It is packed with people of all ages,
mostly with the working men and women and
young college guys and gals.
Near the window, was seated an old man with his 30 year old son.
As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed with joy as he
was thrilled with the scenery outside..
"See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful" This behavior from a thirty year old son made the other people
feel strange about him. Every one started murmuring something
or other about this son. "This guy seems to be a krack.." newly
married Anup whispered to his wife.
Suddenly it started raining... Rain drops fell on the travelers
through the opened window. The Thirty year old son, filled with
joy " see dad, how beautiful the rain is .." Anup's wife got irritated with the rain drops spoiling her new suit.
Anup : "cant you see its raining, you old man, if your son is not
feeling well get him soon to a mental asylum.. and don’t disturb
public henceforth" The old man hesitated first and then in a low tone replied
"we are on the way back from hospital, my son got discharged
today morning , he was a blind by birth, last week only he got
his vision, these rain and nature are new to his eyes..
Please forgive us for the inconvenience caused..." The things we see may be right from our perspective until
we know the truth. But when we know the truth our reaction
to that will hurt even us. So try to understand the problem
better before taking a harsh action
அண்ட் donate eyes.

JOHN PONRAJ

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

My Collections

Always Have A Clean And Clear Mind
I cannot afford to overlook the influence that other people have on me. There are cases where people quarrel, fight and even commit murder because they are influenced by gossip, influenced by the words of others. To what extent do I check that I am not being influenced by gossip? Negativity in the mind is like poison. Negative thoughts are the seeds of negative actions. It might seem like a simple everyday occurrence - my friends tell me in the strictest confidence that such and such a person is like this and does so-and-so. I listen and accept without question because of the friendship. My attitude and actions now become influenced by my friends words, and I find myself acting and reacting in accordance with the information fed to me. Gossip and guessing bring sorrow, heaviness and distrust. Poison can come in many disguises, but poison is poison whether from an enemy or a friend.
Don't miss your life by trying to live someone else's.

Many of us spend most of our life trying to live someone else's life. We are great fixers, and as we watch others we can hear ourselves attempting to 'sort them out'. We hear it in our conversations with others and with ourselves. It sounds like, "They shouldn't...weren'tthey awful...did you hear about so and so...in my opinion they should". In these moments we waste time trying to write the script of others and forget to write our own. We have no right to write another's script and any attempt to do so is futile, frustrating and doomed to failure. So let be, and taste the freedom from the subtle tensions and anxieties about others by letting them write their own script. Don't miss your life by trying to live someone else's.

Exercise The Power Of Peace!!
Peace consists of pure thoughts, pure feelings and pure wishes. When the energy of thought, word and action is balanced and stable, the individual is at peace with the self, in relationships and the world. To exercise the power of peace look inward in order to look outward with courage, purpose and meaning.
Secrets Of A Happy Life.
Silence, happiness, love and blessings are important aspects. Happiness leads to good health. It is only you who can give this medicine to yourself. Some bring illness to themselves through anger, greed, unfullfilled desires, expectations, suppression of feelings and relationships not based on true love. Look in your heart, you will know where your illness comes from. There are three ingredients for a long and healthy life: live with attention but without worry; use time in a worthwhile way; keep your thoughts pure, positive and filled with strength.
Have A Strong And Courageous Heart!!
The heart is like a flower - unless it is open it cannot release its fragrance into the world. The fragrance of the heart is made up of the qualities and virtues of our spirit. Most of us have learned how to keep our heart closed in a world that would trample all over us if we let it. Being open hearted today seems to require tremendous courage. It is a courage which comes only when we realise that no one can hurt us, no matter what they say or do. They may hurt our body, but if we have realised we are spirit, nothing outside can touch us, if we so decide.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

About Friends!!!!!

“Friends are needed both for joy and for sorrow”

“A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails”

"The rain may be falling hard outside,But your smile makes it all alright.I'm so glad that you're my friend.I know our friendship will never end."

"Friendship makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity by dividing and sharing it."
"Friends show their love in times of trouble..."

"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."

"A sympathetic friend can be quite as dear as a brother."

" There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom."

“Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty.”

“ The language of friendship is not words but meanings.”

“In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”

“A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your success!”

“Do not protect yourself by a fence, but rather by your friends.”

“Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget”

There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.
The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have. A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever. For every second spent in anger, a minute of happiness is wasted.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

பிரிஎண்ட்ஷிப்!!!

Friendship is like the relation b/w the hand & eyes…its like when the hand gets hurt,the eyes cry & when the eyes cry the hand wipes its tear!!!!

GUD FRIENDS are those who care without hesitation,who love without limitation & who remember even without communication!!!!

Time alone can prove the worth of friendship.As the time goes by,we lose the false ones & keep the best….just a sweet hello to one of the best!!!!

Good friendship means to help without hesitation,to give without expectation,to share without limitation & to remember even without communication!!!!

Friendship is a silent gift of nature…..more old,more strong…..more deep,more clear…..more close,more warm…..& less words more understanding.